Steve Pemberton: An inspiration to foster children all over the world. Photo - YouTube
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0cdnnIt0s4Q
I think we need to remember CYF here in NZ is an organisation run by governmental legislation which is created by various people and organisations based on professional knowledge and experience.
Perhaps we need to ask: Is society being a bit too harsh on organisations like CYF? CYF is people who are charged with the unenviable responsibility of sorting out social issues at grass roots level, particularly in regard to displaced children in dysfunctional family situations. The responsibility entails doing what is best for the child and it would seem that it doesn't always come out right. When it doesn't, it sometimes sadly, has devastating effects on children who are totally reliant on the state to ensure their ongoing care, wellbeing and overall safety.
It is easy to pick up on the negativity though, especially when it comes to vulnerable children but it would be good to hear about the CYF success stories too.
One can only imagine how exacting the job of keeping children safe must be and how there would be little room for error, as one child slipping through the cracks is one too many.
American former foster child Steve Pemberton found a place in this world after having been rejected as a child and it would appear, had difficult foster experiences during his young life.
But he survived all that to find his feet and later, also found the love of his life in wife Tonya and the couple have three children.
There are various talks and presentations by Steve Pemberton on YouTube, I'm sure you will find interesting.
Would love to hear from you!
Have you been a foster child?
Tell us at Beating the Odds about your experiences. You can use an assumed name or remain anonymous in the comments if you wish. Your story might help someone else.
To your continued health and wellbeing!
BTO
